The reaction to any grief or loss goes through 4 stages
Denial and
shock is often the initial reaction to
loss. This is emotional protection from being overwhelmed by the loss. The
person may not be able to believe what his mind knows to be true. This stage
normally lasts 2 - 3 months.
Intense
Concern is often shown by not being
able to think of anything else. Even during daily tasks, thoughts of the loss
keep coming to mind. This period may last 6 months to 1 year.
Despair and depression is a long period of grief and the most
painful and protracted stage for the griever. Depression can include feelings
of anger, guilt, sadness, and anxiety.
Recovery – the sufferer starts a new interest in daily activities
and begins to function normally on a day to day basis.
Homeopathic
remedies can be a great help in helping someone move through the stages of
grief. However it is important to note the sufferer still has to work through
their grief and this can take several weeks – so there is a need to be patient
and understanding.
The
Bach Flower Remedies are renowned
for helping with emotional healing and these should be considered if you have
access to these remedies. Consider Star of Bethlehem, Sweet Chestnut or Water
Violet. In extreme cases of overwhelming grief you may consider using Rescue
Remedy